One of the things I love about keeping a blog are the comments people sometimes leave. Especially the ones who tell me I don't know them, but they know me and that I'm an ugly person inside and out. If I don't know them, how is it even possible that they would even know me? Hmmm...let's ponder on that bit of logic shall we?
Of course, since the commenter of my last post seems to know so much about the ex's fiancee...I can take a really good guess at how this person has come to think they know me so well, and who he/she is. So really, want to know all the details anonymous commenter? Email me and we can have a discussion of the details that were obviously left out for the benefit of a certain someone. Or better yet, give me a call since you most likely can get my number and you know where I live. Aren't you dying to know the truth? Is that why you're reading my blog in the first place? Or maybe the truth is too scary for you. Hmmm...guess we'll find out, eh?
By the way, if you really knew me so well, you'd know that a lot of what I post here is sarcasm pointed at myself. So please, unless you have the full version of events, don't even begin to think you know anything about what really happened between us.
Anyways, I deleted the comment because the last thing I expected was to find myself getting reamed on my own blog. And truthfully, it is a bit hurtful getting reamed by someone who you don't know, but of course they know you very well because of...well...hearsay. Yup...lovely thing that thing they call hearsay. It certainly does serve it's purpose!
But here's the comment for everyone's enjoyment. So enjoy!
"You don't know me, but I know you well. I know you very well. You need to face the consequences of your actions. You will never find any peace in your lies. I know you were the one who cheated on your husband. I know how you were caught, I know who caught you. I just want to know one thing. Do you think putting up a pretty old picture of yourself will make you actually be that pretty. Honey you are not even an ounce of the woman his new fiance is. You are ugly inside and out. A good woman is honest, strong, and will never put her family in harm. You did. You lied cheated and stole the life out of you family. The woman he is with now is honest and real. He is getting the love he deserves. She accepts you son as her own. She helps in when he is scared and she will never hurt him like you did and she will never tell him what you did to him. She is nothing like you thank god. If you have any faith at all, you should know what comes around goes around. Good luck with that."
And this is the part where unfortunately I can't help but to respond:
"You don't know me, but I know you well. I know you very well."...again...does this even make sense on any reasonable level? You know me very well based on hearing one side of the story? And from whom?
"You need to face the consequences of your actions."...I do. The consequences of my actions call on me to raise my son on my own, without his father. Basically he's with his dad every other weekend and I haven't even asked him for additional payment of child support. So yes I do face the consequences. You do the math.
"You will never find any peace in your lies."...since you're basing your knowledge of me on hearsay, I'm interested on which lies you're talking about. His lies about my lies?
"I know you were the one who cheated on your husband. I know how you were caught, I know who caught you."...once again hearsay. Of course, I wasn't the one coming home with lipstick smeared on items of clothing that suggested much more than hugging went on.
"I just want to know one thing. Do you think putting up a pretty old picture of yourself will make you actually be that pretty."...I have to agree with the commenter in that my picture...wow has it been 2 years since I last changed it? Anyways, I updated it just for you with one taken just about a month ago. Truthfully, my eyebrows are a bit thick in them, but I don't obsess over my appearance so, ya know.
"Honey you are not even an ounce of the woman his new fiance is."...About me not being an ounce of the woman the fiancee is...you're right there. Did I not mention her size two size made me feel like a heffer? So technically, that means I'm a lot more ounces than her. Also, you're obviously someone who doesn't like me, so don't call me honey.
"You are ugly inside and out."...let's see...given I did not attack the fiancee in my post, and you are attacking me based on sarcasm I wrote and directed to myself...can we revisit who the ugly one really is here?
"A good woman is honest, strong, and will never put her family in harm. You did."...let's see this a good one because the same thing can be said of a good man...a good man is honest, strong and will never put his family in harm.
"You lied cheated and stole the life out of you family."...once again convenient hearsay for a certain someone.
"The woman he is with now is honest and real. He is getting the love he deserves. She accepts you son as her own. She helps in when he is scared and she will never hurt him like you did and she will never tell him what you did to him. She is nothing like you thank god. If you have any faith at all, you should know what comes around goes around. Good luck with that."... Ya know, I can't even respond to this because I know nothing of the financee except what I hear from other people. And you know what I say to them? Don't tell me this, I can't make a judgement on her based on what someone else tells me, even when what I hear sometimes is pretty scary.
So anyways, I'd like to say this has been fun, but it has not.
Oh and btw, I love the new
Oh and btw, I love the new pic! You are beautiful inside and out!